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looking for nonviolent communitarian socialist revolution

recently lost partner to cancer after 46 years marriage -- three kids, four grandkids, all wonderful in own balmy ways and trip for me to keep up with -- more or less retired after preaching 40 years in methodist churches -- chicago, fresno, san rafael, reno -- passionate about justice as organized love, generally jovial, self-deprecating, good listener, interested in everybody and almost everything, limited in body but not in heart, mind or spirit by systemic arthritis but still trucking after all these years and will not go gently into that good night

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height188 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionHandicapped


Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenThree or more
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
Have PetsCat, Dog
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
Employment StatusRetired
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job Titlemethodist preacher

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports
Favorite TV showsmasterpiece theater, bill moyers, newshour, rachel maddow
Favorite movies typesComedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary
Favorite moviestree of life, little mary sunshine, norma rae, one flew over the cuckoo's nest, on the waterfront, daughters in the dust, cool hand luke, malcolm x, do the right thing -- anything by spike lee
Music typesCountry, Rock, Blues, Jazz, Reggae, Gospel, Folk
Favorite artistsbruce sptingsteen, sweet honey in the rock, pete seeger, lucinda williams, roland kirk, john coltrane, otis rush, janis joplin, ccr, the fugs, bob dylan, bonnie raitt
Reading selectionAnthology, Biography, Political, Poetry, Religious
Favorite bookspaerts of bible, grapes of wrath, moby dick, poems of martin espada and adrienne rich, not just yes and amen, being and messiah, dreams for my father, sandburg's lincoln, latin american magical realism, john lecarre
Idea of funbeach-sitting, swimming, sunset-watching, time with kids/ grandkids, camping, traveling, thrift-shopping, listen to music live and recorded, baseball games, walks in the woods
HobbiesSports, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Family, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Theater, Travel, Camping, Volunteering


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorFriendly
Friends describe asTroublemaker
In High School I was a(n)Class clown
Sense of humorFriendly
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Clubbing / bars, Reading a book, Going to a concert, Going to a museum
Always wanted to trylearning spanish, visiting in latin america, writing a book, taking part in poetry slam, swimming without end


Political viewsGreen party
Attend religious servicesOnce a week
Goal in lifesee kidsand grandkids to as much happiness/fulfillment as possible; see if another loving, laughing, liberating, lasting relationship is possible for me and for another; write as much as i can as well as i can; staying open to surpises of the Spirit for common good of all

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerloving/accepting/enjoying/experimenting in body, mind, spirit; openness and inclusiveness; honesty, loyalty, humor, resiliency; mutual respect and care for identity/sexuality
On the first datecoffee and/or lunch, conversation with lots of questions, some laughing, maybe some crying, clarifying needs/desires/hopes, some bonding by feeling and touch, one step at a time, make it up as we go, be open to all possibilities


Enjoys playingCheerleading, Croquet, Swimming and Diving
Enjoys watchingBaseball, Basketball
Favorite teamoakland a's, indiana hoosiers, nevada wolfpack, fr